Cheating happens as a result of not being content in your marriage. Contentment in what form? Money, sex, food, etc. In this blog, you will be knowing about why do men cheat.
Anybody can cheat anybody!
Research has shown that men are more likely to cheat than women, 20% of men have admitted to cheating compared to 13% of women.
Here are several reasons why your husband is having an affair but how to deal peacefully with a cheating spouse is more important;
- They need attention or emotional attachment
When the partner isn’t getting the desired attention from his wife, he might result in getting the attention somewhere else. Also, men are emotionally immature; they do not communicate about their emotions, so they tend to bottle it up most of the time but when they find it somewhere else, they won’t hesitate.
- They are acting on what their partner has done
Their partner might have cheated on them, or they suspect that she has done such, so they act immature and do the same instead of talking about it with their wives.
- They are addicted
Some women think they can change their husbands, which is entirely false, you cannot change a man; if he feels there is a need to change he’ll do it without hesitation. Some guys may have been sleeping with everything in a skirt before marriage and you think when he finally settles down he’ll stop and he doesn’t stop finally, that means he is addicted to it, he does not have power over it anymore except he starts to discipline himself about it and be intentional about it.
- They have low self-esteem and they are not confident enough
If your husband is insecure about himself and he is not confident enough, someone like that tends to seek validation from people, and when they give him that he begins to live on that. Depression can also be a reason why they have low self-esteem.
- They are trying to get out of their relationship
If a man realizes that he cannot be in that relationship anymore he starts to devise means to leave the relationship. He begins to give excuses and complains about very immature things.
There are different ways wives deal with their cheating husbands. A high percentage shows that men who have cheated in the past continue to cheat on their wives who are trying to maintain their marriage.
For people that have not encountered such, they are trying to maintain a faithful spouse. These are ways to maintain a faithful spouse ;
- Communicate regularly
- Spoil yourselves by going out for treats and having fun
- Have sex regularly
- While making decisions, consider your spouse
- Resolve arguments quickly
- Talk about anything and everything
- Most importantly, make your spouse your best friend