Turn This House Into a Happy Home: Improving Your Child’s Home Environment

Turn This House Into a Happy Home: Improving Your Child's Home Environment

Few things affect a child's psychological development more than his or her home environment. A bad home environment can set a child on the path to recklessness,  low self-esteem, and poor coping mechanisms. Conversely, a positive home environment can set a child on the path to happiness, stability, and success.

Do you have children? Hoping to create as positive of a home environment as possible? Here are some tips for doing so.

1. Solve Disagreements Amicably

A surefire way to ruin a child's home environment is to carry on with loud and raucous arguments. While disagreements are expected, airing them in loud and uncontrolled ways can have long-term effects on a child's psyche. As such, you need to do your best to solve disagreements amicably.

This is true not only for disagreements that you have with your child but for disagreements that you have with your spouse and other family members as well. If you're in a constant loop of arguing, your child is going to start to feel jumpy and unsafe. In all likelihood, this will lead to the development of stress, anxiety, and lowered self-esteem.

Not to mention, it will show your children that loud arguments are a reasonable way to work through disagreements. In the school and business worlds, this is not usually the case.

When a disagreement arises, it's best to explain how it makes you feel. You don't want to blame or accuse anyone. Accusations breed hostility and hostility almost always leads to an argument.

2. Read Often

If you're looking to optimize your children's communication skills, it's a good idea to read to them as often as possible. The more words and vocabulary a child is exposed to, the easier communication will come at an older age. Not to mention, reading together is a terrific bonding experience.

And you don't have to read The Grapes of Wrath or Ulysses. In fact, quite the contrary. In truth, you should be reading books that are around your child's reading level.

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3. Keep the Negativity to a Minimum

Life can get rough at times. It can get so rough, in fact, that we sometimes give in to feelings of negativity. However, if you have children, you must resist these feelings with everything you've got.

See, a negative attitude is like poison for a developing child. If he or she sees his or her parents complaining all of the time, he or she is bound to complain all of the time as well. This could easily result in negative long-term coping mechanisms.

Now, this isn't to say that you shouldn't voice any of your concerns; You should. However, it's best to keep them away from your kids. If need be, consider making regular appointments with a mental health professional.

4. Let Your Kids Be Themselves

A big part of parenting is showing kids how to handle certain responsibilities. For instance, you want your children to understand the importance of cleaning up after themselves.

However, a child's life shouldn't only be characterized by responsibility. If you want your children to reach the apex of their development, you need to let them be themselves.

How can you accomplish this? One method includes setting aside time for free play. This entails setting down some toys and letting your children do whatever they want with them.

You'll also want to let your children explore. Letting your children wander off on their own will help them to become more independent, all the while fostering problem-solving skills. Conversely, too much hand-holding can cause your children to become dependent on you.

Now, this isn't to say that you should let your children do whatever they want. You need to make sure they're safe, after all. It's just that you should watch them from a distance, and let them be their own people separate from you.

5. Show Affection

For some families, showing affection is as natural as breathing. For other families, it's as foreign as extraterrestrial beings. If your family fits in the latter group, you need to start making more of an effort.

Children need affection. Not only does it help them to feel secure but it also fosters kindness and empathy. These characteristics can be hugely beneficial throughout the course of one's life.

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So, hug your kids; Show them an understanding of what they're going through; Ask them about their day. Only good can come of it.

6. Be Honest

One of the big mistakes that parents make is shielding their children from the messy and scary parts of life. Except for in potentially-traumatic cases, this is a mistake.

The fact of the matter is that children need to learn. Only by learning can they successfully navigate this strange thing we call society.

So, whether you're embroiled in a child custody case or experiencing the death of a loved one, you need to tell your children the truth. There's a good chance that they'll feel hurt initially. However, it will pay dividends in the long-run, promoting good coping skills and facilitating a thirst for knowledge.

7. Keep Things Consistent

Last but not least, you need to keep things consistent. A lack of consistency is confusing to a child and can lead to long-term restlessness.

The goal is to keep your attitude on an even keel. The more you waver in your behavior, the harder the time your child will have of building a solid foundation. If you lack consistency entirely, your child can grow up void of a foundation, lacking an essential identity or sense of purpose.

A Positive Home Environment is a Priority

You can teach your child all of the lessons in the world. But if his or her home environment is negative, it will all be for nothing. In short, a positive home environment is a priority.

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